If you want to want be you, be you.

Harold and Maude. 1971.Just for the joy of it... makes me giggle, makes me feel normal and inspired and alive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKGze_1DWbE&app=desktop

And this conversation... Maude: I should like to change into a sunflower most of all. They're so tall and simple. What flower would you like to be? Harold: I don't know. One of these, maybe. Maude: Why do you say that? Harold: Because they're all alike. Maude: Oooh, but they're *not*. Look. See, some are smaller, some are fatter, some grow to the left, some to the right, some even have lost some petals. All *kinds* of observable differences. You see, Harold, I feel that much of the world's sorrow comes from people who are *this*, [she points to a daisy] Maude: yet allow themselves be treated as *that*. [she gestures to a field of daisies]